The Three Good Things Method (a 2-Minute Gratitude Habit)
The Three Good Things method is a nightly gratitude practice: write down three things that went well that day and, for each, a short note on why it happened. It takes about two minutes and works by training attention toward what's going right. In a well-known study it was linked to higher well-being over several months (Seligman et al., 2005). It's a personal-growth practice, not therapy or a promise of results.
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What the method is
Three Good Things — sometimes called 'What Went Well' — is one of the most studied gratitude exercises. Each night you write three things that went well during the day, and beside each one, a brief note on why it went well or what your role in it was.
The 'why' is the part people skip, and it's the part that matters. Naming the cause turns a passing good moment into something you notice you can influence, rather than luck that happened to you.
How to do it (copy this)
Do it at the end of the day, in about two minutes:
- Good thing 1: [what happened] — why: [your role or the cause].
- Good thing 2: [what happened] — why: [your role or the cause].
- Good thing 3: [what happened] — why: [your role or the cause].
- Keep them small: a good coffee, a kind message, a task finished all count.
Why it works (and what to expect)
The brain leans toward noticing threats and gaps; deliberately recording what went well helps balance that. In Seligman and colleagues' research, people who did this exercise for a week reported higher happiness and lower depressive symptoms that lasted for months (Seligman et al., 2005) — though results vary and it isn't a treatment.
In Souluma, Three Good Things fits naturally into the daily gratitude check-in, next to your affirmation and journal. It's a reflection practice, not medical care — if you're struggling, please reach out to a professional.
Souluma is a personal-growth and reflection practice — not therapy, medical, or financial advice, and it doesn't promise specific results.
Common Questions
How is Three Good Things different from a gratitude journal?
It's a specific, structured version of gratitude journaling: exactly three things that went well, each with a 'why'. The fixed format and the causal note are what make it easy to keep and a little more powerful than a freeform list.
When should I do it?
At night works best, so you can review the whole day. It only takes a couple of minutes, which is why it's easy to keep as an evening habit.
Does it really work?
There's real research suggesting it can lift well-being for a period of time, especially early on. It's a helpful focus practice for most people, not a guaranteed or clinical outcome.